{"id":3969,"date":"2020-04-15T23:43:35","date_gmt":"2020-04-15T20:43:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rugute.lt\/?page_id=3969"},"modified":"2022-01-12T10:28:00","modified_gmt":"2022-01-12T08:28:00","slug":"mirtis","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/rugute.lt\/en\/informacija\/gyvenimas-su-liga\/mirtis\/","title":{"rendered":"Mirtis"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Gyvenimas su liga<\/h6>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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Mirtis<\/h1>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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Vaiko mirtis sukelia beveik nepakeliam\u0105 skausm\u0105 ir sielvart\u0105 j\u012f myl\u0117jusiems artimiesiems. Mirtis nuo v\u0117\u017eio ateina po m\u0117nesiais ar metais trukusio sekinan\u010dio gydymo ir emocini\u0173 svyravim\u0173. \u0160eimai, i\u0161sekusiai nuo kovos su v\u0117\u017eiu, prasideda daugel\u012f met\u0173 trunkanti \u0161irdg\u0117la<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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Gydytojui ir t\u0117vams svarbu apsispr\u0119sti, kada suma\u017einti ar visai nutraukti aktyv\u0173 gydym\u0105 eil\u0119 atkry\u010di\u0173 patyrusiam vaikui, ir susitelkti ties tuo, kaip pagerinti jam likusio laiko kokyb\u0119. Tai labai asmeni\u0161kas sprendimas. Kai kurios \u0161eimos nori i\u0161bandyti bet kok\u012f galim\u0105 gydym\u0105 ir visus \u012fmanomus vaistus. Kitos pasiekia rib\u0105, kai jau\u010dia, jog padar\u0117 visk\u0105, k\u0105 gal\u0117jo, ir tiesiog nebenori suteikti vaikui daugiau kan\u010di\u0173. Jos tikisi dar \u0161iek tiek laiko, kad pab\u016bt\u0173 kartu, pasidalint\u0173 prisiminimais, i\u0161reik\u0161t\u0173 meil\u0119 ir pasiruo\u0161t\u0173 mir\u010diai. Kai jau tampa ai\u0161ku, kad mirtis nei\u0161vengiama, t\u0117vai ne\u017eino, kaip tai pasakyti sergan\u010diajam bei jo broliams ir seserims. M\u016bs\u0173 kult\u016broje \u012fprasta sl\u0117pti nuo vaik\u0173 \u017eini\u0105 apie mirt\u012f, lyg tai juos ka\u017ekaip gal\u0117t\u0173 apsaugoti. Ta\u010diau vaikai, net patys ma\u017eiausi, supranta, kad jie mir\u0161ta. Jie apsimeta, jog viskas gerai, kad \u012ftikt\u0173 t\u0117vams, o \u0161ie stengiasi u\u017emaskuoti savo didel\u012f sielvart\u0105 dirbtine \u0161ypsena. Taip abi pus\u0117s pralo\u0161ia. Tiek vaikus, tiek t\u0117vus, neigimas sulaiko nuo svarbi\u0173 dalyk\u0173 \u2013 atsisveikinimo, meil\u0117s vienas kitam i\u0161sakymo. T\u0117vai tur\u0117t\u0173 paruo\u0161ti vaik\u0105 kelionei i\u0161 gyvenimo \u012f mirt\u012f. Vaikas turi \u017einoti, ko tik\u0117tis ir kas, \u0161eimos \u012fsivaizdavimu, laukia mirus<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t

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Kai kurie vaikai mir\u0161ta greitai, kiti g\u0119sta pama\u017eu, savait\u0117mis ar net m\u0117nesiais. Jei j\u016bs\u0173 vaikas mir\u0161ta l\u0117tai, galite spr\u0119sti, kur jam praleisti likusias dienas \u2013 ligonin\u0117je ar namuose. N\u0117ra gero ar blogo pasirinkimo. Daugelis t\u0117v\u0173 teiraujasi vaiko, kur jis nor\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti. Taip pat svarbu aptarti, ar vaikui mir\u0161tant t\u0117vai nori, jog \u0161alia b\u016bt\u0173 gydytojas ar slaug\u0117. Kai kurios \u0161eimos labai susidraugauja su ligonin\u0117s personalu ir j\u0173 buvimas \u0161alia palaiko morali\u0161kai, kiti gi, \u0161alia mir\u0161tan\u010diojo lovos nori matyti tik \u0161eimos narius ir artimiausius draugus. Mirtis gali \u012fvykti ramiai arba bauginan\u010diai \u2013 priklauso nuo pasiruo\u0161imo ir \u0161eimai suteikto palaikymo kokyb\u0117s.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t

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Bud\u0117jimas prie pa\u0161arvotojo, jo laidojimas, yra svarb\u016bs ne tik atsisveikinimui ir susitaikymui su mirtimi, bet ir pabuvimui su kitais \u017emon\u0117mis, kuriems vaikas buvo brangus. Per laidotuves susirenka artimieji ir draugai, pasidalija prisiminimais, palaiko likusius \u0161eimos narius. Bet kokio am\u017eiaus vaikams tur\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti leid\u017eiama dalyvauti laidotuv\u0117se, jei jie to nori, tik prie\u0161 tai reikia supa\u017eindinti, kaip viskas vyks ir k\u0105 tai rei\u0161kia. Jiems reikia \u017einoti, ar karstas bus atviras, kiek bus \u017emoni\u0173, kiek viskas truks.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t

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Artimieji ir draugai gali b\u016bti nei\u0161semiamas paguodos \u0161altinis gedint arba atvirk\u0161\u010diai. Kai kurie \u017emon\u0117s tiesiog jau\u010dia, kada reikalingas apkabinimas, kada tyla. Kiti nenutuokia, k\u0105 pasakyti, tod\u0117l tyli. Dar kiti niekada daugiau nemini mirusiojo vardo, ne\u017einodami, jog apsimetimas, kad to vaiko niekada nebuvo, tik didina t\u0117v\u0173 skausm\u0105<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t

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\u017dod\u017eiai:<\/div>
– \u201eu\u017ejau\u010diu jus\u201c;<\/div>
– \u201enegaliu \u012fsivaizduoti skausmo, kur\u012f i\u0161gyvenate, bet galvoju apie jus\u201c;<\/div>
– \u201ej\u016bs man tikrai r\u016bpite\u201c;<\/div>
– \u201emeld\u017eiuosi u\u017e j\u016bs\u0173 \u0161eim\u0105\u201c;<\/div>
– \u201eniekada neu\u017emir\u0161iu j\u016bs\u0173 vaiko \u0161ypsenos\u201c.<\/div>
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Darbai:<\/div>
– nueikite \u012f laidotuves;<\/div>
– nuo\u0161ird\u017eiai i\u0161klausykite;<\/div>
– nusi\u0173skite t\u0117vams lai\u0161kel\u012f vietoj u\u017euojautos atviruko su atspausdintu tekstu. Pamin\u0117kite k\u0105 nors gra\u017eaus, k\u0105 prisimenate apie vaik\u0105;<\/div>
– pakalb\u0117kite su t\u0117vais apie mirus\u012fj\u012f, pasidalinkite prisiminimais;<\/div>
– jei t\u0117vai i\u0161rei\u0161kia kalt\u0119, kad ka\u017ek\u0105 padar\u0117 ar nepadar\u0117, u\u017etikrinkite, kad jie padar\u0117 visk\u0105, k\u0105 gal\u0117jo;<\/div>
– atsiminkite mirties metines, nusi\u0173skite \u0161eimai g\u0117li\u0173 ar paskambinkite;<\/div>
– gerbkite \u0161eimos ged\u0117jimo b\u016bd\u0105;<\/div>
– b\u016bkite kantr\u016bs, vaiko ged\u0117jimas trunka ilgai.<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t
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Niekada nesakykite t\u0117vams:<\/div>
– \u201ea\u0161 \u017einau, kaip j\u016bs jau\u010diat\u0117s\u201c;<\/div>
– \u201egerai, kad vaiko kan\u010dios baig\u0117si\u201c;<\/div>
– \u201ea\u010di\u016b Dievui, j\u016bs dar jauni, kad gal\u0117tum\u0117te tur\u0117ti daugiau vaik\u0173\u201c;<\/div>
– \u201ebent jau turite dar vien\u0105 vaik\u0105\u201c;<\/div>
– \u201eb\u016bkite dr\u0105s\u016bs\u201c;<\/div>
– \u201elaikas gydo\u201c;<\/div>
– \u201eDievas neduoda daugiau, nei galite i\u0161k\u0119sti\u201c;<\/div>
– \u201etai buvo Dievo valia\u201c;<\/div>
– \u201ejis\/ji dabar geresn\u0117je vietoje\u201c;<\/div>
– \u201eDievui turb\u016bt reik\u0117jo dar vieno angeliuko\u201c;<\/div>
– \u201egerai, kad tai atsitiko tokiems stipriems, kaip j\u016bs\u201c;<\/div>
– \u201ekaip laikosi j\u016bs\u0173 santuoka?\u201c;<\/div>
– \u201ej\u016bs turite b\u016bti stipr\u016bs d\u0117l savo likusi\u0173 vaik\u0173\u201c.<\/div>
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Nesakykite mirusiojo broliams\/seserims:<\/div>
– \u201eturite b\u016bti stipr\u016bs d\u0117l savo t\u0117v\u0173\u201c;<\/div>
– \u201eneverkite, tai nuli\u016bdins t\u0117vus\u201c;<\/div>
– \u201etu dabar esi nam\u0173 vyras\u201c;<\/div>
– \u201ekoks jausmas b\u016bti vyresni\u0105ja seserimi?\u201c<\/div>
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Pra\u0117jus m\u0117nesiams ar metams po vaiko mirties, niekada nesakykite nieko pana\u0161aus:<\/div>
– \u201ear nemanai, kad jau laikas \u201egyventi toliau\u201c?\u201c;<\/div>
– \u201elaikas palikti visk\u0105 praeityje\u201c;<\/div>
– \u201egyvenimas t\u0119siasi\u201c;<\/div>
– \u201etau nereik\u0117t\u0173 daugiau taip jaustis\u201c;<\/div>
– \u201ear nemanai, kad reikt\u0173 atiduoti vaiko drabu\u017eius?\u201c;<\/div>
– \u201eneverk\u201c;<\/div>
– \u201eneb\u016bk li\u016bdna\/-as\u201c;<\/div>
– \u201ear tav\u0119s neveikia blogai visi \u0161ie pie\u0161iniai?\u201c;<\/div>
– \u201epra\u0161au, nekalb\u0117k apie j\u012f\/j\u0105, tai tik su\u017eadina visus prisiminimus\u201c;<\/div>
– \u201enegerai visada s\u0117d\u0117ti namie, tur\u0117tum i\u0161eiti ir prasibla\u0161kyti\u201c.<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t
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Mirusiojo broliai\/seserys da\u017enai vadinami \u201eu\u017emir\u0161tais li\u016bd\u0117tojais\u201c, nes paprastai visas d\u0117mesys b\u016bna nukreiptas \u012f t\u0117vus. Gedintys vaikai var\u017eosi i\u0161reik\u0161ti savo stiprius jausmus, kad apsaugot\u0173 t\u0117vus nuo papildomos kan\u010dios. Be to, suaugusieji da\u017enai jiems pataria \u201eb\u016bti stipriems\u201c ar pad\u0117ti t\u0117vams \u201eb\u016bnant geriems\u201c. \u0160ie pra\u0161ymai siaubingai apsunkina vaikus, kurie ir taip jau i\u0161kent\u0117 m\u0117nesius ar metus streso. Jiems reikia nuolatinio patvirtinimo, kad kiekvienas i\u0161 j\u0173 yra nepakei\u010diamas \u0161eimos narys ir kad visa \u0161eima daug i\u0161kent\u0117jo. Jie turi teis\u0119 ged\u0117ti atvirai ir taip, kaip jie nori.<\/div>
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Vaikai i\u0161rei\u0161kia sielvart\u0105 \u012fvairiais b\u016bdais:<\/div>
– fizi\u0161kai (atsiranda valgymo, miegojimo \u012fpro\u010di\u0173 pasikeitimas, pilvo skausmai),<\/div>
– emoci\u0161kai (gr\u012f\u017etama prie vaiki\u0161k\u0173 \u012fpro\u010di\u0173, atsiranda pyk\u010dio priepuoliai, verkimas, u\u017esidarymas savyje, li\u016bdesys),<\/div>
– baime (tamsos, buvimo be t\u0117v\u0173),<\/div>
– kalte (\u201ekart\u0105 a\u0161 pasakiau broliui, kad nor\u0117\u010diau, jog jis mirt\u0173\u201c).<\/div>
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Paaugliai gali vaidinti es\u0105 abejingi, prad\u0117ti r\u016bkyti, vartoti alkohol\u012f. T\u0117vai turi u\u017esiimti su vaiku (i\u0161eiti pasivaik\u0161\u010dioti, pa\u0161nek\u0117ti), nesvarbu kokio am\u017eiaus jis b\u016bt\u0173.<\/div>
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Daugelio \u0161eim\u0173 nariai laikosi atskirai, nes jiems per daug skausminga dalintis giliais, bet skirtingais jausmais. T\u0117vai jaudinasi, kad jei prad\u0117s apie tai kalb\u0117ti, pratr\u016bks. Ta\u010diau vaikai, kurie atskiriami nuo \u0161eimos ged\u0117jimo, gali prad\u0117ti jaustis atstumti nuo jos.<\/div>
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Keletas patarim\u0173, kaip i\u0161likti gedint kartu:<\/div>
– leiskite mirusiojo broliams\/seserims eiti \u012f laidotuves, jie daug i\u0161gyveno ir jiems reikia atsisveikinti bei pajausti param\u0105;<\/div>
– dalinkit\u0117s su jais savo jausmais, tai paskatins i\u0161sakyti savuosius;<\/div>
– darykite \u0161eimos susirinkimus, kuriuose pakalb\u0117tum\u0117te apie mirus\u012fj\u012f. Nevenkite j\u0173 metu verkti ar juoktis, dalinkit\u0117s prisiminimais apie sirgusiojo pasakytus juokelius ar negra\u017eius poelgius (nereikia jo prisiminti kaip \u0161ventojo);<\/div>
– tarkit\u0117s, kaip pamin\u0117ti mirties metines ar mirusiojo gimtadien\u012f.<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t
\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tT\u0117v\u0173 sielvartas\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t
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Kiek yra gedin\u010di\u0173 t\u0117v\u0173, tiek yra ir \u0161irdg\u0117los b\u016bd\u0173. Negali b\u016bti jokio ged\u0117jimo plano, kur pereinama nuo punkto A \u012f punkt\u0105 B, ar laiko, kai tai turi baigtis. Vaiko mirtis yra vienas \u0161iurpiausi\u0173 ar skausmingiausi\u0173 gyvenimo \u012fvyki\u0173. Tai atrodo nenat\u016bralu, nesuprantama. Netekus vaiko, gedima ne tik jo pa\u010dio, bet ir su juo susijusi\u0173 vil\u010di\u0173, svajoni\u0173. Netenkama dalies sav\u0119s, dalies savo ateities.<\/div>
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Gedintiems t\u0117vams da\u017enai kartojama, kad \u201elaikas suma\u017eins skausm\u0105\u201c. Daugelis \u012fsitikina, kad taip n\u0117ra. Laikas padeda jiems suprasti skausm\u0105, \u012ftikina, jog gali prisitaikyti ir i\u0161gyventi. \u016amus skausmas nurimsta, bet i\u0161kart prasiver\u017eia, kai i\u0161girsta vaiko m\u0117gt\u0105 dain\u0105 ar sulaukia jo gimtadienio. Ged\u0117jimas yra ilga ir sunki kelion\u0117 su pakilimais ir nuopuoliais. Ta\u010diau t\u0117vai pasakoja, kad su laiku, juokas ir d\u017eiaugsmas gr\u012f\u017eta. Jie pripa\u017e\u012fsta, kad gyvenimas nebebus toks, koks buvo, bet gali t\u0119stis.<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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Mirtis nuo v\u0117\u017eio ateina po m\u0117nesiais ar metais trukusio sekinan\u010dio gydymo ir emocini\u0173 svyravim\u0173. \u0160eimai, i\u0161sekusiai nuo kovos su v\u0117\u017eiu, prasideda daugel\u012f met\u0173 trunkanti \u0161irdg\u0117la Aktyvaus gydymo atsisakymas Gydytojui ir t\u0117vams svarbu apsispr\u0119sti, kada suma\u017einti ar visai nutraukti aktyv\u0173 gydym\u0105 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":3850,"menu_order":4,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"elementor_header_footer","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-3969","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"yoast_head":"\nMirtis - Labdaros ir paramos fondas \u201eRugut\u0117\u201c<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Vaiko mirtis sukelia beveik nepakeliam\u0105 skausm\u0105 ir sielvart\u0105 j\u012f myl\u0117jusiems artimiesiems. \u0160eimai, i\u0161sekusiai nuo kovos su v\u0117\u017eiu,...\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/rugute.lt\/en\/informacija\/gyvenimas-su-liga\/mirtis\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_GB\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Mirtis - 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