{"id":3960,"date":"2020-04-15T23:31:58","date_gmt":"2020-04-15T20:31:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rugute.lt\/?page_id=3960"},"modified":"2022-01-12T10:23:18","modified_gmt":"2022-01-12T08:23:18","slug":"seima-draugai","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/rugute.lt\/en\/informacija\/gyvenimas-su-liga\/seima-draugai\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0160eima ir draugai"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-page\" data-elementor-id=\"3960\" class=\"elementor elementor-3960\" data-elementor-settings=\"{&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_width&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_width_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_width_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_padding&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;top&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;right&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;bottom&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;left&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;isLinked&quot;:true},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_padding_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;top&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;right&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;bottom&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;left&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;isLinked&quot;:true},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_padding_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;top&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;right&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;bottom&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;left&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;isLinked&quot;:true},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_border_radius&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;top&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;right&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;bottom&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;left&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;isLinked&quot;:true},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_border_radius_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;top&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;right&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;bottom&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;left&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;isLinked&quot;:true},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_border_radius_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;top&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;right&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;bottom&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;left&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;isLinked&quot;:true}}\" data-elementor-post-type=\"page\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-4a2bdad4 elementor-section-content-middle elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4a2bdad4\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-585e0066\" data-id=\"585e0066\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2ed863fa elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2ed863fa\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h6 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Gyvenimas su liga<\/h6>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1101ff6d elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1101ff6d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">\u0160eima ir draugai<\/h1>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b7f30ba elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b7f30ba\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Vaikui susirgus v\u0117\u017eiu, \u0161eima ir artimieji \u2013 tetos, d\u0117d\u0117s, pusbroliai, pusseser\u0117s, seneliai \u2013 gali su\u0161velninti sukr\u0117tim\u0105 paguod\u017eian\u010diais \u017eod\u017eiais ir elgesiu. Jie kartais netgi aukoja did\u017ei\u0105j\u0105 dal\u012f savo laiko, praleisdami j\u012f su sergan\u010diu vaiku, ir i\u0161lieka tvirti vis\u0105 gydymo laikotarp\u012f. Deja, kiti b\u016bna ne tokie paslaug\u016bs, ne\u017einodami, kuo gali b\u016bti naudingi, ar d\u0117l asmenini\u0173 problem\u0173.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-17f1fd3e\" data-id=\"17f1fd3e\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-49e4de5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-bdt-accordion\" data-id=\"49e4de5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"bdt-accordion.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-container\">\n\t\t\t<div id=\"bdt-ep-accordion-49e4de5\" class=\"bdt-ep-accordion bdt-accordion\" data-bdt-accordion=\"{&quot;collapsible&quot;:true,&quot;multiple&quot;:false,&quot;animation&quot;:true,&quot;transition&quot;:&quot;ease-in-out&quot;,&quot;duration&quot;:200}\" \t\tdata-settings=\"{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;bdt-ep-accordion-49e4de5&quot;,&quot;activeHash&quot;:&quot;no&quot;,&quot;activeScrollspy&quot;:null,&quot;hashTopOffset&quot;:false,&quot;hashScrollspyTime&quot;:false,&quot;closeAllItemsOnMobile&quot;:false}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div\t\t\t\t\t\t\tclass=\"bdt-ep-accordion-title bdt-accordion-title bdt-flex bdt-flex-middle\" id=\"bdt-ep-accordion-artimj-informavimas\"\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tdata-accordion-index=\"0\" data-title=\"artim-j-informavimas\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon bdt-flex-align-left\"\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\taria-hidden=\"true\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon-closed\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fa-fw fas fa-caret-right\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon-opened\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fa-fw fas fa-caret-up\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span role=\"heading\" class=\"bdt-ep-title-text bdt-flex-inline bdt-flex-middle\" >\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tArtim\u0173j\u0173 informavimas\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-content bdt-accordion-content\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>T\u0117vams tai viena pirm\u0173 skausming\u0173 u\u017eduo\u010di\u0173. Paradoksalu, ta\u010diau \u0161eimos nariai, kurie gali suteikti did\u017eiausi\u0105 palaikym\u0105, taip pat gali b\u016bti papildomo streso \u0161altinis. Kai kurie artimieji, i\u0161gird\u0119 naujien\u0105, susitelkia apie nelaim\u0117s i\u0161tikt\u0105 \u0161eim\u0105 ir jai padeda, tuo tarpu kiti \u2013 atitolsta. Paramos stiprum\u0105 lemia keli faktoriai: tarpusavio ry\u0161i\u0173 stiprumas, bendravimo da\u017enumas, kraujo giminyst\u0117, informacijos apie \u0161eimos poreikius pasidalijimas.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div\t\t\t\t\t\t\tclass=\"bdt-ep-accordion-title bdt-accordion-title bdt-flex bdt-flex-middle\" id=\"bdt-ep-accordion-seneliai\"\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tdata-accordion-index=\"1\" data-title=\"seneliai\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon bdt-flex-align-left\"\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\taria-hidden=\"true\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon-closed\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fa-fw fas fa-caret-right\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon-opened\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fa-fw fas fa-caret-up\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span role=\"heading\" class=\"bdt-ep-title-text bdt-flex-inline bdt-flex-middle\" >\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tSeneliai\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-content bdt-accordion-content\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div align=\"justify\">Su\u017einoj\u0119 apie an\u016bko lig\u0105, seneliai labai sielvartauja. Jie pergyvena ne tik d\u0117l ligoniuko, bet taip pat ir d\u0117l savo vaiko. V\u0117\u017eio diagnoz\u0117 sukelia sumai\u0161t\u012f j\u0173 l\u016bkes\u010diuose d\u0117l nat\u016bralaus mirties eili\u0161kumo. Seneliai da\u017enai galvoja: \u201eKod\u0117l ne a\u0161? A\u0161 tai jau senas&#8230;\u201c<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\">Daugelis t\u0117v\u0173 pasakoja, kad seneliai, su\u017einoj\u0119 apie an\u016bko lig\u0105, suteikia did\u017eiul\u0119 psichologin\u0119, fizin\u0119 ir finansin\u0119 param\u0105. R\u016bpindamiesi kitais \u0161eimoje esan\u010diais vaikais ir nam\u0173 \u016bkiu, jie suteikia galimyb\u0119 t\u0117vams daugiau laiko praleisti su ligoniu ar gr\u012f\u017eti \u012f darb\u0105. Ta\u010diau ne visoms \u0161eimoms taip pasiseka. Kai kurie seneliai yra perdaug seni ar ligoti, kad taip pad\u0117t\u0173, kiti papras\u010diausiai nesugeba susidoroti su u\u017egriuvusia nelaime ir pal\u016b\u017eta. Kartais seneliai d\u0117l vaiko ligos kaltina t\u0117vus ar i\u0161sako skausmingas pastabas. Nesutarimai kyla ir jiems per daug ki\u0161antis. Kritikuodami t\u0117v\u0173 pasirinkt\u0105 gydytoj\u0105, ligonin\u0119 ar gydymo metod\u0105, jie tik pablogina situacij\u0105 ir kelia papildom\u0105 stres\u0105 \u0161eimai.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\">Taigi, sunku atsp\u0117ti, kaip kiekvienas \u017emogus reaguos su\u017einoj\u0119s apie lig\u0105. Seneliai taip pat ne i\u0161imtis. Nat\u016bralu, kad u\u017egriuvus nelaimei, t\u0117vai tikisi savo t\u0117v\u0173 paramos ir pagalbos, ta\u010diau nereik\u0117t\u0173 u\u017emir\u0161ti, kad galimyb\u0117s pad\u0117ti priklauso ir nuo \u012fvyki\u0173, vykstan\u010di\u0173 j\u0173 pa\u010di\u0173 gyvenime<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div\t\t\t\t\t\t\tclass=\"bdt-ep-accordion-title bdt-accordion-title bdt-flex bdt-flex-middle\" id=\"bdt-ep-accordion-ryio-palaikymas\"\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tdata-accordion-index=\"2\" data-title=\"ry-io-palaikymas\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon bdt-flex-align-left\"\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\taria-hidden=\"true\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon-closed\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fa-fw fas fa-caret-right\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon-opened\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fa-fw fas fa-caret-up\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span role=\"heading\" class=\"bdt-ep-title-text bdt-flex-inline bdt-flex-middle\" >\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tRy\u0161io palaikymas\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-content bdt-accordion-content\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Pirmas svarbus \u017eingsnis \u0161eimoms \u2013 \u012fvesti bendravimo tvark\u0105. Kartais vaikas b\u016bna perdaug ligotas ar pavarg\u0119s nuo lankytoj\u0173, ir tai reikia pasakyti. Gera i\u0161eitis informuoti visus apie vaiko savijaut\u0105 \u2013 telefono skambu\u010diai. Vienas i\u0161 \u0161eimos nari\u0173 gali prane\u0161ti vienam giminai\u010diui, o \u0161is &#8211; perduoti kitiems. Kai lankymas leid\u017eiamas, vizitai tur\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti trumpi ir linksmi. Ilgi pasis\u0117d\u0117jimai nuvargina ne tik ligon\u012f, bet ir t\u0117vus.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div\t\t\t\t\t\t\tclass=\"bdt-ep-accordion-title bdt-accordion-title bdt-flex bdt-flex-middle\" id=\"bdt-ep-accordion-naudingi-patarimai-artimiesiems\"\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tdata-accordion-index=\"3\" data-title=\"naudingi-patarimai-artimiesiems\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon bdt-flex-align-left\"\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\taria-hidden=\"true\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon-closed\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fa-fw fas fa-caret-right\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon-opened\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fa-fw fas fa-caret-up\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span role=\"heading\" class=\"bdt-ep-title-text bdt-flex-inline bdt-flex-middle\" >\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tNaudingi patarimai artimiesiems\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-content bdt-accordion-content\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div align=\"justify\">Kiekviena \u0161eima yra skirtinga, tod\u0117l \u0161ie patarimai tiks ne visoms. Priimtinus atsirinkite patys:<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; b\u016bkite jautr\u016bs tiek vaiko, tiek t\u0117v\u0173 emocinei b\u016bklei. Kartais t\u0117vai nori pakalb\u0117ti apie lig\u0105, o kartais tiesiog pas\u0117d\u0117ti susikibus u\u017e rank\u0173;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; paraginkite visus \u0161eimos narius palaikyti ry\u0161\u012f (apsilankymais, skambu\u010diais, elektroniniu pa\u0161tu); &#8211; lankydami sergant\u012f vaik\u0105 neu\u017esib\u016bkite, skleiskite ger\u0105 nuotaik\u0105;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; b\u016bkite supratingi, jei t\u0117vai nenor\u0117s, kad skambintum\u0117te \u012f ligonin\u0119. Nepamir\u0161kite, kad vaikas visk\u0105 girdi, apie k\u0105 kalbat\u0117s;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; nusi\u0173skite vaikui \u012f ligonin\u0119 balion\u0173, linksm\u0173 atviruk\u0173 ar knygu\u010di\u0173, \u017eaisl\u0173 \u2013 tai j\u012f labai pradiugins. (G\u0117l\u0117s palatoje nepageidaujamos, nes gali padidinti infekcijos rizik\u0105);<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; nune\u0161kite d\u0117lioni\u0173, \u017eaidim\u0173, spalvinimo knygeli\u0173, kompiuterini\u0173 \u017eaidim\u0173. Venkite sud\u0117ting\u0173, nes d\u0117l gydymo vaikui gali b\u016bti sunku ilgam sutelkti d\u0117mes\u012f;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; pasisi\u016blykite t\u0117vams trumpam juos pakeisti. Pasivaik\u0161\u010diojimas lauke ar po parduotuves, apsilankymas kirpykloje, vakarien\u0117 su sutuoktiniu ar tiesiog du\u0161as, labai atgaivina;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; jei ilgai nebendravote su kuriuo nors \u0161eimos nariu \u2013 paskambinkite. Tyla da\u017enai rei\u0161kia, kad jis\/ji ne\u017eino, k\u0105 pasakyti;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; paaukokite kraujo. Jis neb\u016btinai bus panaudotas j\u016bs\u0173 sergan\u010diam giminai\u010diui, bet papildys bendras atsargas, skiriamas v\u0117\u017eiu sergantiems vaikams.<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div\t\t\t\t\t\t\tclass=\"bdt-ep-accordion-title bdt-accordion-title bdt-flex bdt-flex-middle\" id=\"bdt-ep-accordion-draugai\"\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tdata-accordion-index=\"4\" data-title=\"draugai\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon bdt-flex-align-left\"\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\taria-hidden=\"true\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon-closed\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fa-fw fas fa-caret-right\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon-opened\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fa-fw fas fa-caret-up\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span role=\"heading\" class=\"bdt-ep-title-text bdt-flex-inline bdt-flex-middle\" >\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tDraugai\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-content bdt-accordion-content\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div align=\"justify\">Lengviausias kelias prane\u0161ti apie vaiko lig\u0105 visiems draugams \u2013 \u012fpareigoti vien\u0105 j\u0173 tai padaryti. Tai apsaugos nuo begalyb\u0117s graud\u017ei\u0173 pokalbi\u0173. Da\u017eniausiai t\u0117vai b\u016bna kartu su vaiku, tod\u0117l nenori papildom\u0173 emocini\u0173 i\u0161gyvenim\u0173. Daugelis draug\u0173 nori pad\u0117ti, ta\u010diau ne\u017eino, k\u0105 tokioje situacijoje daryti ar sakyti, tod\u0117l jie bus d\u0117kingi u\u017e informacij\u0105, kuo gali b\u016bti naudingi.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><b>Patarimai \u0161eimos draugams<\/b><\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\">Motina Teres\u0117 kart\u0105 pasak\u0117: \u201eMes negalime atlikti \u017eygdarbi\u0173 \u2013 tik smulkius darbus su didele meile\u201c.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u0160tai keletas patarim\u0173, kaip galite pad\u0117ti nelaim\u0117s i\u0161tiktai \u0161eimai:<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; atne\u0161kite \u012f ligonin\u0119 maisto (galite surengti piknik\u0105 ant palatos grind\u0173);<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; pasir\u016bpinkite naminiais gyv\u016bn\u0117liais;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; nupjaukite aplink nam\u0105 \u017eol\u0119, nukaskite snieg\u0105, sugr\u0117bkite lapus, nurav\u0117kite dar\u017eel\u012f;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; sutvarkykite namus;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; i\u0161lyginkite r\u016bbus;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; pasaugokite kitus \u0161eimos vaikus, pad\u0117kite jiems paruo\u0161ti pamokas, nuve\u017ekite \u012f mokykl\u0105 ar b\u016brel\u012f. I\u0161siveskite juos pasivaik\u0161\u010dioti, pa\u017ei\u016br\u0117ti filmo ar sporto rungtyni\u0173, kai sergantis vaikas yra namie;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; jei atne\u0161ate dovan\u0117l\u0119 ligoniui, atne\u0161kite ir jo broliui\/sesei;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; pasi\u016blykite vaikui ir\/ar t\u0117vams lankyti palaikymo grup\u0119;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; jei galite \u2013 pad\u0117kite finansi\u0161kai;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; paraginkite sergan\u010dio vaiko bendraklasius j\u012f aplankyti, paskambinti, atsi\u0173sti atviruk\u0105;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; jei \u0161eima religinga, pakvieskite kunig\u0105 j\u0105 aplankyti, pasikalb\u0117ti.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><b>Ko nereik\u0117t\u0173 daryti <\/b><\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><b><\/b>Kartais \u017emon\u0117s pasako toki\u0173 dalyk\u0173, kurie visai nepadeda:<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; \u201eDievas \u017emogui siun\u010dia tik tokius i\u0161bandymus, kuriuos jis gali pakelti\u201c (kai kurie t\u0117vai su tuo negali susitvarkyti);<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; \u201eA\u0161 \u017einau, kaip tu jautiesi\u201c (jei j\u016bs\u0173 vaikas nesirgo v\u0117\u017eiu, j\u016bs to ne\u017einote);<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; \u201eTu toks(-ia) dr\u0105sus(-i), stiprus(-i)\u201c (t\u0117vai n\u0117ra didvyriai, jie normal\u016bs \u017emon\u0117s, besistengiantys \u012fveikti did\u017eiul\u012f stres\u0105);<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; \u201e\u0160iais laikais gydytojai daro ne\u012ftik\u0117tinus ir nuostabius dalykus, kad i\u0161gelb\u0117t\u0173 vaikus, sergan\u010dius v\u0117\u017eiu\u201c (taip, prognoz\u0117 gali b\u016bti gera, bet tai, k\u0105 patiria t\u0117vai ir vaikas, n\u0117ra taip jau nuostabu);<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; \u201eNa, visi vien\u0105 dien\u0105 mirsime\u201c, \u201eTai Dievo valia\u201c (galb\u016bt, bet t\u0117vams nuo to ne lengviau);<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; \u201eJ\u016bs dar turite daugiau vaik\u0173\u201c, \u201eA\u010di\u016b Dievui, dar esate jauni, kad susilauktum\u0117te kito vaiko\u201c (vaikas nepakei\u010diamas);<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; \u201ePrane\u0161kite, jei gal\u0117sime b\u016bti kuo nors naudingi\u201c (geriau pasisi\u016blyti padaryti k\u0105 nors konkretaus);<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; lankydami ligon\u012f, neklauskite, kada ataugs jo plaukai, nesakykite, kad jis i\u0161bly\u0161k\u0119s ar numet\u0117 svorio;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; nesielkite taip, kad t\u0117vams reikt\u0173 jus palaikyti (pvz., neskambinkite verkdami);<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; nekalb\u0117kite nuolat apie v\u0117\u017e\u012f;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; neu\u017edavin\u0117kite klausim\u0173 \u201ekas bus jei?\u201c: \u201e&#8230;jis negal\u0117s eiti \u012f mokykl\u0105?\u201c, \u201e&#8230;draudimas nepadengs ligonin\u0117s i\u0161laid\u0173?\u201c, \u201e&#8230;jis mirs?\u201c (t\u0117vai gali susitvarkyti tik su dabartimi);<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; nepasakokite apie gird\u0117tus atvejus, kai vaikas mir\u0117 ar patyr\u0117 ilgalaikius \u0161alutinius gydymo padarinius (geriau pasidalinkite \u017einiomis apie s\u0117kmingus gydymo atvejus).<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><b>Draug\u0173 praradimas<\/b><\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\">Skaudi realyb\u0117, ta\u010diau t\u0117vai, kuri\u0173 vaikas serga v\u0117\u017eiu, praranda did\u017ei\u0105j\u0105 dal\u012f draug\u0173. Jie d\u0117l \u012fvairi\u0173 prie\u017eas\u010di\u0173 tiesiog negali su tuo apsiprasti ir staiga i\u0161nyksta arba palaipsniui tolsta. Kartais to galima i\u0161vengti nuolat skambinant ir bendraujant.<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div\t\t\t\t\t\t\tclass=\"bdt-ep-accordion-title bdt-accordion-title bdt-flex bdt-flex-middle\" id=\"bdt-ep-accordion-eimos-gyvenimo-pokyiai\"\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tdata-accordion-index=\"5\" data-title=\"eimos-gyvenimo-poky-iai\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon bdt-flex-align-left\"\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\taria-hidden=\"true\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon-closed\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fa-fw fas fa-caret-right\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon-opened\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fa-fw fas fa-caret-up\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span role=\"heading\" class=\"bdt-ep-title-text bdt-flex-inline bdt-flex-middle\" >\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\u0160eimos gyvenimo poky\u010diai\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-content bdt-accordion-content\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div align=\"justify\">V\u0117\u017eys \u201eaplanko\u201c labai \u012fvairias \u0161eimas: pilnos sud\u0117ties ar su vieni\u0161a mama\/t\u0117\u010diu, pasiturin\u010dias ir turin\u010dias finansini\u0173 problem\u0173, apsuptas gimini\u0173, draug\u0173 bei j\u0173 neturin\u010dias ir t.t. Kiekvienai nelaim\u0117s i\u0161tiktai \u0161eimai reikalinga did\u017eiul\u0117 parama. \u0160eimoms svarbu tai anksti suprasti ir i\u0161mokti ne tik d\u0117kingai priimti pagalb\u0105, bet ir papra\u0161yti jos, kai reikia. Kaip jau buvo ra\u0161yta anks\u010diau, visi nori pad\u0117ti, bet ne\u017eino kaip. Jie laukia i\u0161 \u0161eimos nurodym\u0173, kas b\u016bt\u0173 naudinga, o kas nepageidaujama.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u0160eimos, kuriose abu t\u0117vai dirba, tur\u0117t\u0173 apsispr\u0119sti d\u0117l darbo. Geriau, jei \u012fmanoma, i\u0161naudoti vis\u0105 galim\u0105 biuletenio laik\u0105 bei atostog\u0173 dienas, prie\u0161 nusprend\u017eiant vienam i\u0161 t\u0117v\u0173 atsisakyti darbo. T\u0117vai turi sugeb\u0117ti \u012fvertinti savo finansin\u0119 pad\u0117t\u012f ir draudimo naudingum\u0105. Visa tai reikalauja laiko ir ramaus apsvarstymo, ko labai tr\u016bksta su\u017einojus vaiko diagnoz\u0119.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><b>Santuoka<\/b><\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><b><\/b>Susid\u016brus su nelaime, santuokai tenka did\u017eiulis i\u0161bandymas. Nusistov\u0117j\u0119s \u0161eimos gyvenimas subyra, sutuoktiniai retai matosi, labai i\u0161gyvena ir su i\u0161tikusiu stresu tvarkosi skirtingai. Pora tur\u0117t\u0173 tiesiog i\u0161gyventi pirm\u0105sias baisias savaites, o paskui kartu v\u0117l visk\u0105 atkurti naujai.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\">Keletas patarim\u0173 sutuoktiniams:<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; kalb\u0117kite, dalinkit\u0117s naujienomis,spr\u0119skite i\u0161kilusias problemas kartu;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; prie sergan\u010dio vaiko b\u016bkite paeiliui;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; pasiskirstykite pareigomis nam\u0173 \u016bkyje;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; konsultuokit\u0117s su specialistais.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\">Kai kurios santuokos i\u0161lieka, kitos \u2013 ne. Da\u017eniausiai skiriasi tos \u0161eimos, kurios jau prie\u0161 tai tur\u0117jo rimt\u0173 problem\u0173, o i\u0161tikusi nelaim\u0117 jas dar labiau paa\u0161trino.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><b>Skirtingos \u0161eimos<\/b><\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\">Dalis vaik\u0173, sergan\u010di\u0173 v\u0117\u017eiu, yra i\u0161 netradicini\u0173 \u0161eim\u0173: kai t\u0117vai tiesiog negyvena kartu ar yra i\u0161siskyr\u0119, kai t\u0117vai antr\u0105 kart\u0105 ved\u0119, kai vieno i\u0161 t\u0117v\u0173 niekada nemato, kai vaikas yra globojamas ar \u012fvaikintas. Bendravimas tarp suaugusi\u0173j\u0173 gali b\u016bti nuo\u0161irdus ir draugi\u0161kas arba \u012ftemptas ir nebendradarbiaujantis. Vaikui geriausia, kai suaugusieji atideda savo ambicijas \u012f \u0161al\u012f ir kartu siekia sukurti palanki\u0105 aplink\u0105 vaiko gijimui.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\">Jei besigydantis vaikas paeiliui gyvena pas i\u0161siskyrusius t\u0117vus, reik\u0117t\u0173 prad\u0117ti s\u0105siuvin\u012f, kuriame b\u016bt\u0173 galima sura\u0161yti i\u0161gertus vaistus, dozi\u0173 pasikeitimus, vizitus pas gydytoj\u0105, kraujo tyrim\u0173 rezultatus, atsiradusius naujus ligos po\u017eymius.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\">Nelaimei, vaiko liga gali dar labiau pabloginti \u012ftemptus \u0161eimos santykius. Ta\u010diau svarbu, kad visi t\u0117vai, turintys teis\u0119 \u017einoti vis\u0105 informacij\u0105, susijusi\u0105 su liga, gaut\u0173 t\u0105 informacij\u0105 ir dalyvaut\u0173 spr\u0119sdami i\u0161kilusias problemas.<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div\t\t\t\t\t\t\tclass=\"bdt-ep-accordion-title bdt-accordion-title bdt-flex bdt-flex-middle\" id=\"bdt-ep-accordion-seserys-ir-broliai\"\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tdata-accordion-index=\"6\" data-title=\"seserys-ir-broliai\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon bdt-flex-align-left\"\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\taria-hidden=\"true\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon-closed\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fa-fw fas fa-caret-right\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon-opened\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fa-fw fas fa-caret-up\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span role=\"heading\" class=\"bdt-ep-title-text bdt-flex-inline bdt-flex-middle\" >\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tSeserys ir broliai\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-content bdt-accordion-content\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div align=\"justify\">V\u0117\u017eys netiesiogiai palie\u010dia visus \u0161eimos narius, bet ypa\u010d ilgai trunkan\u010dius padarinius sukelia sergan\u010dio vaiko broliams ir seserims. Liga jiems sukelia daugyb\u0119 prie\u0161taring\u0173 jausm\u0173: ne tik r\u016bpest\u012f d\u0117l sergan\u010dio brolio\/ses\u0117s, bet ir pykt\u012f d\u0117l \u0161eimoje kilusios sumai\u0161ties. Jie pavydi sergan\u010diajam dovan\u0173 ir d\u0117mesio, bet da\u017enai jau\u010diasi kalti d\u0117l toki\u0173 jausm\u0173.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><b>Pasakymas apie lig\u0105<\/b><\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\">Sergan\u010dio vaiko seserys ir broliai turi \u017einoti tiek pat, kiek ir pats sergantysis. Pateikiamos informacijos sud\u0117tingumas turi atitikti vaiko am\u017ei\u0173, o \u012f visus i\u0161kilusius klausimus turi b\u016bti nuo\u0161ird\u017eiai atsakyta. Vaikai gali b\u016bti labai paslaug\u016bs, jei supranta \u0161eimoje \u012fvykusius poky\u010dius ir savo vaidmen\u012f, padeda \u0161eimai su viskuo susitvarkyti. Nuo\u0161irdus bendravimas ir j\u0173 jausm\u0173 gerbimas, padeda sveikiems seserims ir broliams jaustis mylimais ir saugiais.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><b>Seser\u0173 ir broli\u0173 emocin\u0117s reakcijos<\/b><\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\">Sergan\u010diojo seserys ir broliai b\u016bna iki \u0161irdies gelmi\u0173 sukr\u0117sti fakto apie lig\u0105. T\u0117vai kartais tiesiog neturi laiko ir j\u0117g\u0173 susikoncentruoti \u012f juos. \u0160ios didel\u0117s kriz\u0117s metu, jie kartais jau\u010dia, jog neturi \u012f k\u0105 kreiptis pagalbos.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u0160tai kokie u\u017epl\u016bsta jausmai:<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><i>R\u016bpestis d\u0117l sergan\u010dio brolio\/sesers. <\/i>Vaikai tikrai pergyvena d\u0117l sergan\u010diojo. Jiems sunku matyti, kaip mylimas \u017emogus badomas adatomis, geria daugyb\u0119 vaist\u0173, netenka svorio, nuplinka. Nepatogu jaustis sveikam ir kupinam j\u0117g\u0173, kai sesuo\/brolis negali niekur i\u0161eiti d\u0117l silpnumo ar \u017eem\u0173 kraujo rodikli\u0173. Vyresni supranta ir apie mirties galimyb\u0119.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><i>Baim\u0117.<\/i> Da\u017enai jaunesnieji broliai\/seserys galvoja, kad \u0161i liga u\u017ekre\u010diama ir kad jie taip pat gali susirgti. Kiti ima galvoti, kad v\u0117\u017eiu susirgs vienas i\u0161 t\u0117v\u0173. Susid\u016brimas su \u0161ia liga pakei\u010dia vaiko nuomon\u0119, kad pasaulis \u2013 saugi vieta. Jie bijo ir yra labai pa\u017eeid\u017eiami. Gali i\u0161ry\u0161k\u0117ti \u0161un\u0173, nepa\u017e\u012fstam\u0173j\u0173, automobili\u0173 baim\u0117. Kai kurie vaikai ima simuliuoti ligos po\u017eymius, kad susigr\u0105\u017eint\u0173 t\u0117v\u0173 d\u0117mes\u012f.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><i>Pavydas.<\/i> Nepaisant susir\u016bpinimo d\u0117l sergan\u010diojo, beveik visi seserys\/broliai taip pat jau\u010dia ir pavyd\u0105. Sergantysis apipilamas dovanomis, t\u0117vai su juo praleid\u017eia vis\u0105 laisv\u0105 laik\u0105, kalba tik apie j\u012f, tod\u0117l nenuostabu, kad kiti vaikai ima pavyd\u0117ti. J\u0173 gyvenime atsiranda sumai\u0161tis, tod\u0117l \u017emogi\u0161ka, kad atsiranda poreikis ka\u017ek\u0105 kaltinti.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><i>Pyktis. <\/i>Brolio\/sesers liga sugriauna kit\u0173 vaik\u0173 \u012fprast\u0105 gyvenim\u0105, tod\u0117l jie labai pyksta. Pyktis gali b\u016bti nukreiptas \u012f sergant\u012fj\u012f, t\u0117vus, giminai\u010dius, draugus, gydytojus. Pykt\u012f gali sukelti daug prie\u017eas\u010di\u0173: da\u017enas buvimas su aukle, papildomos pareigos buityje ir t.t.<i><\/i><\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><i>Kalt\u0117. <\/i>Ma\u017ei vaikai yra egocentrikai, jie mano, kad pasaulis sukasi aplink juos. Supyk\u0119 jie savo broliui\/sesei gali pasakyti: \u201eTikiuosi tu susirgsi ir numirsi\u201c. Kai sesuo\/brolis i\u0161 ties\u0173 suserga, jie ima galvoti, kad \u201epri\u0161auk\u0117\u201c lig\u0105. Labai svarbu jiems daug kart\u0173 pakartoti, kad niekas d\u0117l to nekaltas ir kad bloga linkin\u010dios mintys ar \u017eod\u017eiai nevirsta realybe. Jie taip pat jau\u010diasi kalti d\u0117l kit\u0173 u\u017epl\u016bdusi\u0173 jausm\u0173 \u2013 pyk\u010dio, pavydo. Reikia paai\u0161kinti, kad tai, k\u0105 jie jau\u010dia, yra normalu ir savaime suprantama. Pasidalinkite ir savo jausmais, parodydami, kad ir j\u016bs pana\u0161iai jau\u010diat\u0117s.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><i>Li\u016bdesys.<\/i> Sergan\u010diojo seserys\/broliai turi daugyb\u0119 prie\u017eas\u010di\u0173 b\u016bti li\u016bdni. Jie pasiilgsta t\u0117v\u0173 ir anks\u010diau su jais praleisto laiko. Jie pasiilgsta buvusio ramaus ir \u012fprasto gyvenimo. Jie bijo, kad sergantis brolis\/ses\u0117 gali mirti. Kai kurie vaikai savo li\u016bdes\u012f i\u0161rei\u0161kia da\u017enai verkdami, kiti u\u017esidaro savyje. Da\u017enai jie giminai\u010diams ir draugams papasakoja, jog mano, kad t\u0117vai j\u0173 nebemyli.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><i>R\u016bpestis d\u0117l to, kas vyksta ligonin\u0117je.<\/i> Vaikai turi laki\u0105 vaizduot\u0119, tod\u0117l ,i\u0161gird\u0119 t\u0117vus \u0161nab\u017edantis, gali prisigalvoti baisiausi\u0173 dalyk\u0173. Matydami, koks silpnas sergantis brolis\/ses\u0117 gr\u012f\u017eta i\u0161 ligonin\u0117s, dar labiau sustiprina baim\u0119, kad ligonin\u0117je vyksta bais\u016bs dalykai. Arba, matydami i\u0161 ten gr\u012f\u017etan\u010dius su balionais ir dovanomis, gali pagalvoti, kad praleido didel\u0119 \u0161vent\u0119. Jokie pasakojimai apie tai, kas ten vyksta, nebus tokie efektyv\u016bs kaip pats apsilankymas ligonin\u0117je. Vaikas ne tik pats visk\u0105 pamatys, bet ir daugiau laiko praleis su sergan\u010diuoju bei t\u0117vais.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><i>R\u016bpestis d\u0117l t\u0117v\u0173.<\/i> Pervarg\u0119 t\u0117vai kartais nesusim\u0105sto apie stiprius jausmus, kurie u\u017epl\u016bsta sveikuosius vaikus. T\u0117vai mano, jog vaikai \u017eino, kad yra mylimi, ir kad gaut\u0173 tiek pat d\u0117mesio, jei sirgt\u0173 v\u0117\u017eiu. Sveikieji vaikai paprastai neparodo juos u\u017epl\u016bstan\u010dio pyk\u010dio, pavydo ar r\u016bpes\u010dio, nes myli savo t\u0117vus ir nenori j\u0173 papildomai apsunkinti. Vaikai galvoja: \u201eA\u0161 turiu b\u016bti stiprus. Nenoriu suteikti t\u0117vams dar daugiau skausmo\u201c. Bet na\u0161ta lengvesn\u0117, kai ja pasidalijama, tod\u0117l t\u0117vai turi raginti vaikus pasikalb\u0117ti apie tai, kaip \u0161ie jau\u010diasi.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><b>Tai, k\u0105 sergan\u010diojo seserys\/broliai nor\u0117t\u0173 pasakyti t\u0117vams:<\/b><\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; mes \u017einome, kad jums sunku ir kad stengiat\u0117s b\u016bti teisingi, bet pasistenkite labiau;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; skirkite mums vienodai laiko;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; sudrausminkite ir sergant\u012fj\u012f, jei jis negerai elgiasi, nedarykite nuolaid\u0173;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; nors kart\u0105 \u012fsivaizduokite save m\u016bs\u0173 vietoje;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; jei j\u016bs\u0173 ilgai n\u0117ra namuose, nors paskambinkite ir pasakykite, kad mylite;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; pasakokite, kas vyksta, pakalb\u0117kite apie lig\u0105;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; nors kiek laiko praleiskite tik su mumis (pvz., papietaukite kart\u0105 per savait\u0119);<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; kai kalbate su giminai\u010diais, papasakokite ir kaip mums sekasi;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; paklauskite, kaip mes jau\u010diam\u0117s, ne\u012fsivaizduokite, kad \u017einote.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><b>Patarimai t\u0117vams:<\/b><\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; paai\u0161kinkite vaikams apie v\u0117\u017e\u012f ir jo gydym\u0105 jiems suprantamais \u017eod\u017eiais, atsakykite \u012f i\u0161kilusius klausimus, jei atsakymo ne\u017einote, pasiteiraukite gydytojo;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; \u012fsitikinkite, jog vaikai supranta, kad v\u0117\u017eys neu\u017ekre\u010diamas ir kad n\u0117 vienas i\u0161 \u0161eimos nari\u0173 nekaltas d\u0117l to, kas \u012fvyko;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; atne\u0161kite i\u0161 ligonin\u0117s sergan\u010dio brolio\/sesers nuotrauk\u0105, paraginkite j\u012f kartu aplankyti;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; kalb\u0117kite su vaikais telefonu ar susira\u0161in\u0117kite elektroniniu pa\u0161tu, jei ilgai neb\u016bnate namie, nuolat priminkite, kad labai j\u0173 pasiilgote;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; nors kartais praleiskite laik\u0105 tik su jais;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; pakalb\u0117kite apie tai, kaip jau\u010diat\u0117s, tuomet atsivers ir jie;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; kuo da\u017eniau apkabinkite, pabu\u010diuokite;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; nenustebkite, jei atsiras elgesio problem\u0173 &#8211; tai normalu esant tokiam stresui namuose.<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Gyvenimas su liga \u0160eima ir draugai Vaikui susirgus v\u0117\u017eiu, \u0161eima ir artimieji \u2013 tetos, d\u0117d\u0117s, pusbroliai, pusseser\u0117s, seneliai \u2013 gali su\u0161velninti sukr\u0117tim\u0105 paguod\u017eian\u010diais \u017eod\u017eiais ir elgesiu. Jie kartais netgi aukoja did\u017ei\u0105j\u0105 dal\u012f savo laiko, praleisdami j\u012f su sergan\u010diu vaiku, ir i\u0161lieka tvirti vis\u0105 gydymo laikotarp\u012f. 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