{"id":3955,"date":"2020-04-15T23:25:54","date_gmt":"2020-04-15T20:25:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rugute.lt\/?page_id=3955"},"modified":"2022-01-12T10:21:45","modified_gmt":"2022-01-12T08:21:45","slug":"jausmai","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/rugute.lt\/en\/informacija\/gyvenimas-su-liga\/jausmai\/","title":{"rendered":"Jausmai, bendravimas ir elgesys"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-page\" data-elementor-id=\"3955\" class=\"elementor elementor-3955\" data-elementor-settings=\"{&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_width&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_width_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_width_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_padding&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;top&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;right&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;bottom&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;left&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;isLinked&quot;:true},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_padding_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;top&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;right&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;bottom&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;left&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;isLinked&quot;:true},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_padding_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;top&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;right&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;bottom&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;left&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;isLinked&quot;:true},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_border_radius&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;top&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;right&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;bottom&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;left&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;isLinked&quot;:true},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_border_radius_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;top&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;right&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;bottom&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;left&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;isLinked&quot;:true},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_border_radius_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;top&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;right&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;bottom&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;left&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;isLinked&quot;:true}}\" data-elementor-post-type=\"page\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-4a2bdad4 elementor-section-content-middle elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4a2bdad4\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-585e0066\" data-id=\"585e0066\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2ed863fa elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2ed863fa\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h6 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Gyvenimas su liga<\/h6>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1101ff6d elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1101ff6d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Jausmai, bendravimas ir elgesys<\/h1>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b7f30ba elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b7f30ba\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Net geriausiomis gyvenimo aplinkyb\u0117mis, vaiko aukl\u0117jimas daugeliui atrodo bauginanti u\u017eduotis. O kai \u0161eim\u0105 i\u0161tinka tokia nelaim\u0117, kaip liga, bendravimas gali labai nukent\u0117ti. Iki ligos \u0161eimoje b\u016bna nusistov\u0117jusios tam tikros taisykl\u0117s ir priimtino elgesio normos. Su\u017einojus vaiko diagnoz\u0119, \u012fprastas gyvenimas sugri\u016bva ir i\u0161kyla \u012fvairiausi\u0173 sumi\u0161im\u0105 ir sielvart\u0105 kelian\u010di\u0173 jausm\u0173. Vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jimas turi pasikeisti, atsi\u017evelgiant \u012f nepastovius sergan\u010dio vaiko poreikius ir situacijos paliestus jo brolius bei seseris.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-17f1fd3e\" data-id=\"17f1fd3e\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-49e4de5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-bdt-accordion\" data-id=\"49e4de5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"bdt-accordion.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-container\">\n\t\t\t<div id=\"bdt-ep-accordion-49e4de5\" class=\"bdt-ep-accordion bdt-accordion\" data-bdt-accordion=\"{&quot;collapsible&quot;:true,&quot;multiple&quot;:false,&quot;animation&quot;:true,&quot;transition&quot;:&quot;ease-in-out&quot;,&quot;duration&quot;:200}\" \t\tdata-settings=\"{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;bdt-ep-accordion-49e4de5&quot;,&quot;activeHash&quot;:&quot;no&quot;,&quot;activeScrollspy&quot;:null,&quot;hashTopOffset&quot;:false,&quot;hashScrollspyTime&quot;:false,&quot;closeAllItemsOnMobile&quot;:false}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div\t\t\t\t\t\t\tclass=\"bdt-ep-accordion-title bdt-accordion-title bdt-flex bdt-flex-middle\" id=\"bdt-ep-accordion-jausmai\"\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tdata-accordion-index=\"0\" data-title=\"jausmai\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon bdt-flex-align-left\"\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\taria-hidden=\"true\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon-closed\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fa-fw fas fa-caret-right\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon-opened\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fa-fw fas fa-caret-up\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span role=\"heading\" class=\"bdt-ep-title-text bdt-flex-inline bdt-flex-middle\" >\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tJausmai\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-content bdt-accordion-content\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Diagnozavus v\u0117\u017e\u012f, visiems \u0161eimos nariams kyla \u012fvair\u016bs jausmai. Vaikai turi ma\u017eiau patyrimo, kaip su jais susitvarkyti. Labai stipriai vaikus paveikia i\u0161oriniai k\u016bno poky\u010diai, ypa\u010d, kai tenka atlikti gal\u016bn\u0117s amputacij\u0105 ar enukleacij\u0105 (akies pa\u0161alinim\u0105). Tuomet jausti li\u016bdes\u012f, pykt\u012f, sumai\u0161t\u012f, bej\u0117gi\u0161kum\u0105 ir baim\u0119 yra normalu. K\u016bno dalies netekimas sukelia tokius pat jausmus, kokie kilt\u0173 mirus artimam \u017emogui. Vaikas turi praeiti ged\u0117jimo laikotarp\u012f ir i\u0161mokti susidoroti su \u0161iais jausmais, kad i\u0161vengt\u0173 elgesio problem\u0173, depresijos, u\u017esisklendimo savyje. Tam labai padeda atviras bendravimas.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div\t\t\t\t\t\t\tclass=\"bdt-ep-accordion-title bdt-accordion-title bdt-flex bdt-flex-middle\" id=\"bdt-ep-accordion-bendravimas\"\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tdata-accordion-index=\"1\" data-title=\"bendravimas\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon bdt-flex-align-left\"\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\taria-hidden=\"true\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon-closed\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fa-fw fas fa-caret-right\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon-opened\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fa-fw fas fa-caret-up\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span role=\"heading\" class=\"bdt-ep-title-text bdt-flex-inline bdt-flex-middle\" >\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tBendravimas\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-content bdt-accordion-content\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div align=\"justify\">Bendravimas su vaiku padeda pamatus pasitik\u0117jimui. Vaikas turi i\u0161 pat prad\u017ei\u0173 \u017einoti, kad j\u016bs atvirai atsakysite \u012f klausimus ir rasite laiko pakalb\u0117ti apie i\u0161kilusius jausmus.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><i>Atvirumas<\/i><\/div><div align=\"justify\">Vaikui labai svarbu pasitik\u0117ti t\u0117vais. Jei jis \u017eino, kad t\u0117vai visada bus \u0161alia, gali i\u0161tverti prakti\u0161kai visk\u0105. Pasitik\u0117jimas reikalauja nuo\u0161irdumo. Vaikas jau\u010diasi saugus, jei jam nemeluojate, nepriklausomai nuo to, ar naujienos geros, ar blogos. Tai apsaugo nuo atsiskyrimo ir bendrumo jausmo \u0161eimoje praradimo.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><i>I\u0161klausymas<\/i><\/div><div align=\"justify\">Viena did\u017eiausi\u0173 dovan\u0173, kuri\u0105 t\u0117vai gali duoti vaikui \u2013 laikas. Ypatingas laikas, kai jie tikrai klauso, k\u0105 vaikas sako. Klauso ne \u017eod\u017ei\u0173, o jiems i\u0161sakom\u0173 jausm\u0173.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><i>Kalb\u0117jimas<\/i><\/div><div align=\"justify\"><i><\/i>Jei j\u016bs ne\u012fprat\u0119 kalb\u0117ti su vaiku apie savo jausmus, bus sunku. Dabar, labiau nei bet kada, svarbu pabandyti. Galite prad\u0117ti pokalb\u012f taip: \u201eA\u0161 labai tav\u0119s ilgiuosi, kai b\u016bnu ligonin\u0117je su tavo broliuku. A\u0161 tau skambinsiu kas vakar\u0105, kad gal\u0117\u010diau i\u0161girsti tavo bals\u0105\u201c. Arba: \u201eKartais a\u0161 tikrai pykstu ant v\u0117\u017eio. Nor\u0117\u010diau, kad m\u016bs\u0173 \u0161eima da\u017eniau b\u016bt\u0173 kartu\u201c. Taip pat naudinga sergan\u010diajam pasakyti, kaip liga veikia jo brolius\/seseris: \u201eTurb\u016bt Tomui labai negera pasilikti namie su aukle, kol a\u0161 b\u016bnu ligonin\u0117je. Pagalvokime, k\u0105 gra\u017eaus gal\u0117tume jam padaryti\u201c. Tokie dalykai ne tik padeda pasijausti mylimam, bet ir skatina i\u0161sakyti savo jausmus d\u0117l to, kas vyksta.<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div\t\t\t\t\t\t\tclass=\"bdt-ep-accordion-title bdt-accordion-title bdt-flex bdt-flex-middle\" id=\"bdt-ep-accordion-vaik-elgesio-pokyiai\"\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tdata-accordion-index=\"2\" data-title=\"vaik-elgesio-poky-iai\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon bdt-flex-align-left\"\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\taria-hidden=\"true\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon-closed\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fa-fw fas fa-caret-right\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon-opened\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fa-fw fas fa-caret-up\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span role=\"heading\" class=\"bdt-ep-title-text bdt-flex-inline bdt-flex-middle\" >\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tVaik\u0173 elgesio poky\u010diai\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-content bdt-accordion-content\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div align=\"justify\"><i>Pyktis<\/i><\/div><div align=\"justify\">Vaikai, sergantys v\u0117\u017eiu, pyksta ne tik ant pa\u010dios ligos, bet ir ant t\u0117v\u0173, kad atve\u017e\u0117 juos \u012f ligonin\u0119 k\u0119sti skausm\u0105, gerti blog\u0105 savijaut\u0105 sukelian\u010dius vaistus. Taip pat d\u0117l to, kad neteko plauk\u0173, draug\u0173 ir t.t.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><i>U\u017esisklendimas<\/i><\/div><div align=\"justify\">Kai kurie vaikai da\u017eniau u\u017esidaro savyje nei i\u0161lieja pykt\u012f. Kaip ir neigimas, laikinas u\u017esisklendimas gali b\u016bti naudingas, kol ateina laikas susidoroti su i\u0161kilusiais jausmais. Ta\u010diau tai gali b\u016bti ir depresijos po\u017eymis. T\u0117vai turi rasti \u0161velni\u0173 b\u016bd\u0173, kaip priversti vaik\u0105 atsiverti.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><i>Regresavimas<\/i><\/div><div align=\"justify\">Daugelis t\u0117v\u0173 sunerimsta, kai sergantis vaikas v\u0117l ima daryti tai, i\u0161 ko i\u0161augo. Pavyzd\u017eiui, geria i\u0161 buteliuko, \u012fsitveria m\u0117gstam\u0105 \u017eaisl\u0105. Protinga b\u016bt\u0173 leisti vaikui bet k\u0105, kas pad\u0117t\u0173 jam \u0161iuo baisiu laikotarpiu jaustis saugiau&#8230; Susigr\u0105\u017einti \u012fpro\u010diai praeina, kai vaikas pasijunta geriau arba kai baigiasi gydymas.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><i>Kalb\u0117jimas apie mirt\u012f<\/i><\/div><div align=\"justify\">Gero aukl\u0117jimo dalis yra leisti vaikui kalb\u0117ti apie dalykus, kurie galb\u016bt var\u017eo, ver\u010dia jaustis nepatogiai. Kai kuriose kult\u016brose pokalbiai apie mirt\u012f tapo tabu. V\u0117\u017eio diagnoz\u0117 priver\u010dia tiek t\u0117vus, tiek vaik\u0105 pripa\u017einti, kad mirtis \u2013 viena i\u0161 galim\u0173 pabaig\u0173. Net 3 m. vaikai gali kalb\u0117ti apie mirt\u012f ir k\u0105 ji rei\u0161kia.<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div\t\t\t\t\t\t\tclass=\"bdt-ep-accordion-title bdt-accordion-title bdt-flex bdt-flex-middle\" id=\"bdt-ep-accordion-tv-elgesio-pokyiai\"\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tdata-accordion-index=\"3\" data-title=\"t-v-elgesio-poky-iai\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon bdt-flex-align-left\"\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\taria-hidden=\"true\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon-closed\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fa-fw fas fa-caret-right\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-icon-opened\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fa-fw fas fa-caret-up\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span role=\"heading\" class=\"bdt-ep-title-text bdt-flex-inline bdt-flex-middle\" >\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tT\u0117v\u0173 elgesio poky\u010diai\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-ep-accordion-content bdt-accordion-content\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div align=\"justify\">Vaiko gydymo metu, t\u0117vai patiria fizin\u012f, emocin\u012f, finansin\u012f stres\u0105. J\u0173 r\u016bpes\u010diai begaliniai. Kritin\u0117 situacija gali lemti tok\u012f elges\u012f, kuriuo jie ne visada did\u017eiuojasi.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><i>Nenuo\u0161irdumas<\/i><\/div><div align=\"justify\">Vaikas jau\u010diasi saugus, kai t\u0117vai jam nemeluoja. Jei jie pradeda k\u0105 nors sl\u0117pti ar \u201esaugoti\u201c nuo blog\u0173 naujien\u0173, vaikas pradeda jaustis atskirtas ir ka\u017eko bijantis. Jis galvoja: \u201eJei t\u0117vai man nieko nesako, turb\u016bt tai ka\u017ekas baisaus\u201c arba \u201emama nekalba apie tai, manau, a\u0161 niekam negaliu pasakyti, kaip bijau.\u201c<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\">Neigimas \u2013 tai nes\u0105moningas melas. Taip atsitinka, kai t\u0117vai vaikui sako: \u201eViskas bus gerai\u201c arba \u201etau nei kiek neskaud\u0117s\u201c. Toks apsimetin\u0117jimas didina atstum\u0105 tarp vaiko ir t\u0117v\u0173. Kad ir kokia baisi b\u016bt\u0173 tiesa, ji retai baugina labiau, nei ta, kuri\u0105 vaikas susikuria vaizduot\u0117je, pasakius tik dal\u012f jos.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><i>Depresija<\/i><\/div><div align=\"justify\">Reik\u0117t\u0173 kreiptis \u012f psicholog\u0105 arba psichiatr\u0105, jei jus nuolat kankina nors vienas i\u0161 \u0161i\u0173 po\u017eymi\u0173: miegojimo \u012fpro\u010di\u0173 pasikeitimas (miegojimas per ilgai, da\u017enas prabudimas nakt\u012f, atsibudimas anksti ryte ir nebegal\u0117jimas u\u017emigti), padid\u0117j\u0119s ar suma\u017e\u0117j\u0119s apetitas, sekso poreikio i\u0161nykimas, bendras nuovargis, panikos priepuoliai, nenoras pramogauti, li\u016bdesio, nevilties ar beverti\u0161kumo jausmas, negal\u0117jimas susikaupti, socialin\u0117 izoliacija, savi\u017eudiki\u0161kos mintys, alkoholio ar narkotik\u0173 vartojimas.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><i>Greitas savitvardos praradimas<\/i><\/div><div align=\"justify\">Visi t\u0117vai kartais praranda savitvard\u0105, ta\u010diau ypa\u010d skausminga, kai pyk\u010dio taikiniu tampa sergantis vaikas. T\u0117vai taip da\u017eniau elgiasi, kai jau\u010diasi bej\u0117giai ir nesugebantys susitvarkyti su situacija. Jei jau\u010diate, kad negalite kontroliuoti savo pyk\u010dio protr\u016bki\u0173, pra\u0161ykite profesionalios pagalbos.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><i>Netolygus nam\u0173 ruo\u0161os paskirstymas<\/i><\/div><div align=\"justify\">Problemos \u0161eimoje garantuotos, jei imsite nuolaid\u017eiauti sergan\u010diam vaikui, kai jo seserys ar broliai dirbs visus darbus. Sergantysis tur\u0117t\u0173 pats pasikloti savo lov\u0105, susitvarkyti \u017eaislus ar stal\u0105. Nuo pat prad\u017ei\u0173 turi b\u016bti garsiai pasakyta, kad bet kuris sergantis vaikas \u0161eimoje yra atleid\u017eiamas nuo nam\u0173 ruo\u0161os, bet tik tol, kol v\u0117l bus fizi\u0161kai paj\u0117gus tai daryti.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><i>Per didelis segan\u010dio vaiko saugojimas<\/i><\/div><div align=\"justify\">Kad sergantis vaikas jaust\u0173si normalus, su juo ir reikia elgtis, kaip su bet kokiu kitu vaiku. Paklauskite gydytojo, koks fizinio aktyvumo lygis yra saugus ir netaikykite didesni\u0173 suvar\u017eym\u0173. Leiskite jam sportuoti ar \u017eaisti kieme, ir nustokite nuolat kartoti: \u201eb\u016bk atsargus\u201c.<\/div><div align=\"justify\">\u00a0<\/div><div align=\"justify\"><i>Patarimai aukl\u0117jant vaikus<\/i>:<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; Elkit\u0117s taip, kaip norite, kad elgt\u0173si vaikas. Jei j\u016bs supyk\u0119 r\u0117kiate ir mu\u0161at\u0117s, taip darys ir vaikas;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; mokykite vaik\u0105 kalb\u0117ti apie jausmus;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; i\u0161klausykite j\u012f;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; b\u016bkite atviri ir pripa\u017einkite savo klaidas;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; tur\u0117kite ai\u0161kias taisykles nusi\u017eengimo atveju;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; aptarkite galimus pyk\u010dio \u0161alinimo b\u016bdus;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; da\u017enai apkabinkite ir kitaip parodykite savo meil\u0119;<\/div><div align=\"justify\">&#8211; pasteb\u0117kite ir pagirkite ger\u0105 vaiko elges\u012f.<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Gyvenimas su liga Jausmai, bendravimas ir elgesys Net geriausiomis gyvenimo aplinkyb\u0117mis, vaiko aukl\u0117jimas daugeliui atrodo bauginanti u\u017eduotis. O kai \u0161eim\u0105 i\u0161tinka tokia nelaim\u0117, kaip liga, bendravimas gali labai nukent\u0117ti. Iki ligos \u0161eimoje b\u016bna nusistov\u0117jusios tam tikros taisykl\u0117s ir priimtino elgesio normos. Su\u017einojus vaiko diagnoz\u0119, \u012fprastas gyvenimas sugri\u016bva ir i\u0161kyla \u012fvairiausi\u0173 sumi\u0161im\u0105 ir sielvart\u0105 kelian\u010di\u0173 jausm\u0173. 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